LESSONS FROM A MEMORIAL SERVICE

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“In the next 100 years none of us in this meeting will be here. But we don't want to think about it and would rather think about other things. When one of our close loved one’s dies; we are forced to think about our own death."

The above were the opening remarks one of the speakers made during the memorial service.

He went on to quote from the book of Luke 12:16-21 in what is commonly referred to us the parable of the rich fool. The moral of the story being we shouldn't store up earthly riches at the expense of our relationship with God.

As I listened to the speeches from friends, family, and workmates to the deceased, one thing caught my attention. The daily activities which we take for granted are the things which people remember and treasure the most.

They fondly spoke of the conversations they had, jokes and meals they shared together and little things he did for them. 

One of the family members read from the book of Romans 12:6-8 which encourages us to make use of the gifts that God has given us to the best of our capabilities.

What gift has the Creator given you? Don’t let it go with you to the grave without giving it a shot.

The scripture of Ecclesiastes 7:1-2 was also read to emphasize the importance of attending such an event as it all reminds us of what our fate is ultimately going to be.

"For death is the destiny of every man, the living should take this to heart."

A family member quoted the scripture of Revelations 21:4 which reminds us that even us we mourn, we should not mourn like those without hope.

Let us reflect on our own mortality. By so doing we will learn to treasure the gift of life and not to take anything or anyone for granted.

 


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